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How to Find Attractive Black Women – Dating Tips For Black Men
I am pretty sure that I am not the only black man over 27 years old that find it difficult to meet black women out there of any calibre. I am a decent looking guy, reasonable height with no emotional baggage so you would think that there would be a glut of women out there for me to choose from. This is just not the case as it seems like any woman of any substance is somehow unavailable after the age of 21. Is it shallow of me to want a hot black woman like any guy my age?
I almost gave up on black women and moved to the lighter side until I came across a website for black singles speed dating while I was browsing for some other things. While I was interested, like a typical black man, I looked at it with suspicion – surely only unattractive women will attend such a thing. This was intermixed with the thought that – only desperate guys attend such events along with apprehension about spending an amount double what I’d normally pay for a door entry to a club. Even with these doubts I saved the link to the black speed dating site to my browser’s favourites/bookmarks.
Fast forward 2 weeks on a night out clubbing with mates. After several attempts to talk to ladies I came away with not a single phone number. One even embarrassed me by responding in a particularly rude manner. I spent £15 to enter the club, £25 on drinks and £12 on cab fare home. I spent over £50 on the night with no results. Something had to change. The next morning I booked my place on the speed dating event.
To be honest, I was pleasantly surprised (no, gob smacked!) at the wide range of girls I met at the event. Regular girls, some attractive ones and some absolute beauties. I was actually quite shocked to learn that not all the girls were looking for partners and some were just out for fun.
Having enjoyed my first excursion into speed dating resulting in the amassing of 8 new female contacts, I took my mates to the next event and they absolutely loved it. Now, they too are hooked. We are now avid speed daters. Forget clubs, they are just for people who don’t know the game.
Based on my experiences here are my tips for black men on speed dating:
- Forget clubbing! This is were you will get value for money.
- Every girl is single and looking so you have a real chance.
- Every type of woman there. Regular, stunning, slim, voluptuous, Christian or secular.
- Not every woman is looking for a relationship, some just want fun.
- You will find girls from Nigeria, Jamaica, Ghana, Barbados, Kenya, Zimbabwe rest of Africa and Caribbean.
- Make sure you attend a speed dating event either by yourself or with mates, you will massively enjoy it.
Regards,
Chris
